General Party Etiquette
It is a misconception that party etiquette is a thing from the past. Nothing could be further from the truth. As conventional as it may sound, it still is rude to have uncivilized conversations and drinking excessively, or worse, starting a fistfight.
With events becoming more elaborate and guest lists being incredibly long, proper party etiquette is more alive than ever. Knowing and understanding the rules of appropriate public behavior is important, not only because you do not want to disgrace or ridicule yourself in front to dozens of friends and family members, but also because you do not want to embarrass the hosts – even if you do not know them well.
Following a few simple rules is easy. Always respectfully reply to an invitation, even if you are unable to attend. If you do decide to join the party, dress appropriately. Let’s say you are unfamiliar with the appropriate the dress code for a certain occasion, ask another guest what they will be wearing, or approach the hosts. They will gladly tell you what kind of attire would be appreciated.
Mingling is not an art everyone masters. Some people are naturally shy, or just have little to say. Making polite conversation requires a great deal of effort, and observing individuals before approaching them and noticing something special about their clothing or behavior, may give you a great conversation starter. Also, do not avoid eye contact during the dialogue, as it will show your insecurity.
Food and drinks are served at most parties. Always carry a napkin or serviette with you when nibbling on appetizers or finger food. Be prepared, as an accident can happen fast, and you do not want a dirty face when an important investor or your dream girl/boy finally wants to talk to you. Keep your meal consumption to normal portions, eat with your mouth closed and don’t gulp a drink down, but rather sip. It is a matter of respecting your environment and most of all the people who invited you to the party in the first place.